Are you too nice? How is it working out for you?
Are you that person that is nice to everyone no matter what and loves everyone no matter what? People know that. You are always surrounded by people. You are that sunshine that everyone needs. Your phone rings non-stop even in the middle of the night. Your home is always full of visitors. With exception of when YOU need help or when YOU are sick, then your phone is quiet, and no one wanted to visit you.
Are you still making excuses for people that turned their back on you when YOU needed help the most?
Next time they'd come around for something, you will give it to them because you are that nice person that loves everyone no matter what. You'll swallow your hurt feelings and pretend that everything is fine and will proceed with what you always do - pleasing people.
Since you are here now, I am assuming that you have realized that you cannot out-nice people, you cannot continuously give without getting anything back, and you no longer can be walked over and taken advantage of. Are you ready to leave that part of your life behind?
It's okay not to be nice to people that treat you badly. Being nice is not a virtue. Being nice to bad people breeds more bad people. So, why are you taking part in making this world worse than it already is?
Norse God Odin said:
"Don"t reward evil people with your kindness. If you do, all you'll have left is evil for when it's time to reward people that are kind to you. How will you repay for their kindness then?"
I am here to help you transform your life, and your relationships, including the most important relationship you'll ever have - with yourself. In just one month you can become much more confident, you will be able to stand up for yourself in the most uncomfortable situations, you will be able to say No kindly or not so kindly when the situation calls for it, and you will be able to spot manipulators and users before it's too late. I have helped already so many people to improve their lives, and now it's your turn to discover just how bright your future can be.
I won't tell you to ignore assaults and manipulation attempts.
I won't tell you to pretend that everything is fine.
I won't tell you that there is something wrong with you because you are reacting badly to bad treatment.
I won't tell you to accept people for what they are.
I won't tell you that you have attracted all those bad people into your life.
I won't tell you that it's your karma.
I won't tell you that you must learn forgiveness and let things go.
We will start with healing your old traumas and pain, releasing fears and doubts, and building confidence.
Hypnosis and neuro-linguistic programing will help us to achieve great results fast.
In the course of twelve weeks, you will learn:
- how to identify and disarm toxic people before they can cause any harm
- build and protect boundaries
- healthy strategic confrontations
- verbal combat
- staying in control of your emotions during arguments
- feel and look confident and assertive
You will stop trying to numb yourself to the attacks and, instead, you will let them fuel you.
You'll start standing up for yourself at the level where all attacks will be perceived as opportunities.
You will take every stone that was thrown at you and build yourself a stairway to success.
Forget about "eye for an eye", you will take their entire head off and decorate your castle with it, so others can see too who you have become. (I am speaking metaphorically!)
There is no accident in the timing of this course. The new YOU will emerge just in time for the holiday season! You will be ready to confront your old "friends" and family bullies at holiday gatherings. Instead of dreading, you will actually enjoy Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year celebrations.
Just imagine what it would be like when instead of getting anxiety from dealing with difficult people, you'll get a little "high" from showing these people where they belong.
12 weekly Zoom sessions
Each session is 1 hour long
Total investment: $2,000
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